In the beginning I would like to thank you all for comments, likes and personal messages about my last post. You guys are truly amazing.
Many of you have said how much you enjoy getting to know me through my short blog stories. I really enjoy writing them, but it wasn’t until my bestie brought to my attention that people like to read short stories rather than just an outfit description. I thought about it and the posts just started creating themselves.
Today’s topic is something we all deal with on a daily basis such as judgement, gossip and fake friends. People that talk about us, behind our back creating stories about our life without knowing the facts or knowing us in person.
People judge me based on clothes I wear, the bag or shoes I have. And yes I love fashion and dressing up, but those things do not define me, those things do not make me, ME.
They usually talk because they do not know the real me/us and somehow creating stories makes them feel fulfilled. How sad is that?
Whenever I hear my friends telling me that someone said this or that, I generally laugh of how small of a person you must be to talk about things you have no idea about.
That is still not the worst, the worst is when you see those people in public and they act like they love you, follow you and admire your style.
I just want to tell you that those people do not matter, those people have their problems and they must live pretty boring life to be so interested in mine/yours. Those people only drill holes under your boat to get it leaking; those people try to discredit your ambitions and they want to destroy your legacies. Don’t let them…I know I will not.
My advise to you is to keep going, do what you love, be the best version of yourself and do not care one penny what anyone says about you. At the end of the day they are the bitter ones.
I stand tall, not bothered, but amused that someone would take so much time out of their day to bash someone they do not know….
I often joke that I like rumours! I find out so much about me that I didn’t even know. LOL
In the end, I just want to share this quote I found extremely accurate..
“Gossip is just a tool to distract people who have nothing better to do from feeling jealous of those few of us still remaining with noble hearts.”
– Anna Godbersen
Till next time, xo
Photos: Fabian Derda